I think we've all had that conversation. The tactic we use is that everyone has strengths and for DS10 it is his wicked smarts. Part of it for us is an ongoing battle with perfectionism. He thinks that ND kids don't sweat over everything. His latest is avoidance, because you can't blow perfect, if you don't ever try it. Nautigal, I'll have that drink with you anytime!

Shari
Mom to DS 10, DS 11, DS 13
Ability doesn't make us, Choices do!