I'm not the only one struggling with this..... big sigh. I hate hugging my son and feeling all his little bones. I try to offer food every two hours, mostly fruit or meat is what he'll eat. He has a lot of food allergies which make it hard too, but sometimes I let him cheat because I just desperately want him to eat something, anything. I do have the eventual goal of us all sitting down at the table together with no distractions, but my first goal for now is increasing his food intake, however I can. I like the blog http://mealtimehostage.wordpress.com because it talks about selective eating, the category way beyond picky.