My DH and I are opposites in terms of our approach to life. While he is extremely laid back, I am on hyperdrive (not pushy but just always up to something). DD3.5 is very much like me. So while she does tire me out at the end of the day, I can keep up with her high energy for the better part of the day. My DH, on the other hand, feels burned out after just 1 hour with her. This is not good because a) my DD can sense this and does not want to spend much time with DH ("I like it better with Mom. We do fun things together")and b) my DH feels left out and surrounded by two high maintenance females. Any other parents in similar boat? Any suggestions on how to create harmony when parent/child personalities don't match?