Just updating, our DD has been diagnosed with Aspergers. She is increasingly aware of her lack of sporting ability, how much slower she runs, etc. Late last year she went on a whole day walk (steeply uphill) with her school and was in terrible pain at the end and home sick for a week after. The low tone and hupermobility do amount to real weaknesses that are easy to underestimate or forget to plan for. Especially for her teachers.

Her coordination IS better, and I think that honestly piano and swimming and circus has done the most with regard to left / right integration, crossin the midline, etc. I don't think her OT was the most important therapy in this regard.

And for all the progress she's made, ultimately she is not neurotypical...

I hope you get useful answers KJP.