I really hope that it doesn't turn out to passive aggressive/vindictive in nature. This is one of my biggest fears in this whole advocacy thing. It is so not fair to the kid in these instances.
Will DS actually tell you what goes on in school? He might have an idea about what is happening. If he is anything like my DS it might just be a lost cause.
Has you DH been involved previously? Mine hasn't but I'm thinking of bringing him in. I agree with the idea of a united front. DH and I go about things in such a different way that I worry about exactly how productive it will be. I'll be looking for the update on how it goes.
I really wish that those of us in extremely similar situations lived near each other. It would be great to have in person support!
