Has he ever been in preschool before? I would suggest trying out a part-time preschool a few days a week and just see how he does. Find out about your local school and how they handle 2e kids. Some public schools allow children to be home schooled, but then come to school a few days a week for certain classes with their agemates or for special ed services in areas that require it.
My son has PDD-NOS, and if I could go back in time and find a way to home school him instead of sending him to school, I would do it 100x over. This year (3rd) has been pretty good, but K-2nd was TERRIBLE. Traumatizing. Awful. I don't have enough words. I did not/do not have the option of homeschooling him though.
