Thanks all, that does sound like where we're at....even with removing almost all other activities still seems really hard to fit this in, but also she is tired from it sometimes, more than I'd expect. We have to fit this in in smaller bits in order to keep a good attitude. At least there are a couple things she can do on her own that are pretty fun.
.... they do keep most of it pretty fun.

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