What about a SIT Plan(School Improvement Team)or 504 Plan. Are either of these options within your school district? I know they say she is doing fine where she is at and with what they are teaching her, but these types of plans are less work for the school, but could help your daughter with some accommodations. You also mentioned she started doing some AR, but has only taken one quiz. We are using our DD8's AR level and her ability to pass the tests on higher level books as leverage to get her some accommodations in reading. When we first started her taking the tests in Kindergarten (AR isn't required until 3rd grade in our district) my mother (a retired teacher) went up to the school to help her get on the computer and log in. This could be something you ask about - could you or someone else go to the school once a week and work with her to take some AR tests? If someone shows up at school to help her with the tests then they can't just put off letting her take them and they don't have to use their own time to do it. We found the more accommodating we were by sending extra puzzle books and higher level reading books to school with DD, for her to do in her down time, the easier it was because the school didn't have to be responsible for finding her something to do. Then once she has some more AR tests to prove she is comprehending what she is reading at a higher level you can use that to show she needs accommodations. Just some more ideas for you! Believe me, I know how down right frustrating it is and if I only knew then what (little) I know now. Keep plugging away!
