Sounds really frustrating; sympathy. As I see it, you have three options:
- Push harder with this school. (I'd start with the maths thing; it's weird that they positively think she isn't ready to do things she's been doing for a long time. Is she "hiding"? An obvious step would be to take in a few of the problem sets she creates for herself.)
- Find a different school.
- Home educate.
What do you think of each of these options? (I don't mean to sound patronising - it's not that I think you won't have thought of these things! But if you want to discuss what to do, it's going to be crucial to understand what options you have.)
