Nice to meet you!!
LOL. Eldertree, I love it.

(Particularly amusing since I happen to have all three of the above children in the form of my single 13yo DD...

I--jokingly-- offered to "get Dad the shovel" yesterday during the height of the vector-induced full-drama-llama meltdown.)
We "tell Katie* to go home now" quite regularly. (* Katie here = Katie Ka-Boom... for examples, see YouTube and prepare to laugh if you have any experience with a teen who has OE's.)
When she's not being completely insane, I quite like the person that my daughter is becoming, even if I don't agree with her. So I believe that Eldertree's statements are true. I've seen glimmers of evidence.