I feel so lost right now! We got an official diagnosis from DS4's psychiatrist with PDD-NOS ... it's in a form of a letter and recommends special ed preschool for him ... but now the school district is asking for reports or they will still have to put him through full testing through the special ed department before they determine if he's eligible for the preschool or not. So, it's like we went through the trips to the psych's office for nothing? She could probably forward some of the testing she did but it was very basic. Most of the diagnosis was based on the OT's assessment, our reports and a play session with my son. We will have further testing in the future through Developmental specialist but that's a matter of a waiting list couple months from now. I was under the impression that having a diagnosis would help and we wouldn't have to be jumping through all these hoops and loops??? Do I have to learn to do headstands to make them happy? ... and there I was, thinking we're finally getting somewhere!