Thanks all for the insights. We are now looking for a good psychologist in our area with experience in attachment disorders. I don't think DGS has RAD, but we know he has attachment issues, due to abandonment by a parent. As for the CAPD, our pediatrician said they cannot do accurate testing until about age 8, as he is still developing.
But, as I said in my post, the symptoms are the main issue and all the providers have similar recommendations for the school, so I think we are all on the same page. The meeting with the school is not until later this month, though, so we will see if they are on the same page, as well!
Thanks again. I am feeling better about the whole thing.
leahchris
