Some kids do not do well or like Scouting. There is alot of regimentation in Scouting. It can be extremely frustrating or annoying for alot of kids. We are very involved in Cub Scouts and go with our kids (ages 7 and 9) to Cub Scout camp. I've told my 9 year old that when it's time for Boy Scout camp, mom will be there too (on the sidelines, in a separate tent). It could be that is what the comments are getting at.