Cricket, thanks for reply. Have you ever had her assessed for LD? I would assume so, since she's had IQ test twice? And esp. if she tested PG, and has struggles?

An aside: I had my oldest daughter tested at age 6. Full score IQ was 120 (and that was JUST FINE with this mother!). But...if you had asked me which daughter would be "gifted" I would have staked my life on the one w 120IQ! (I won't go into detail). But her processing speed index was only 88! She is excelling at college prep school.

So I am very puzzled by this data and what it all means. Thinking about also retesting eldest child, who I really think is AT LEAST as bright as sibling with higher IQ. Any insight or advice?

And I really appreciate your statements about how much you think DD is struggling. Her father wanted to send her to Sylvan. Her teacher thinks something is going on, but I am so far the only one who thinks dyslexia. All I know is that a full assessment by educational psychologist is warranted. B/c any child with 140+ IQ entering fifth grade who spells "on" as "one" has this mother WORRIED.

I would also be v interested in any thoughts/comments re: siblings, IQ co relation, etc.

Thanks!