Thanks for the replies...I have been in touch with EP again, think she is definatly avoiding giving me the results(hmmm)so think I will start writing the letter :), although she has sent her info to camhs so hopefully they will give more information.

I had my son referred to camhs due to his behaviour at school(totally out of character for him)and also the school bringing up ASD/AS blew my mind..never would of even noticed..how awful is that?, he was 2 yrs behind academically because he was simply refusing to do any reading/writing, became verbaly agressive towards his younger sister(definatly out of character for him) having nightmares/night terrors during term time(never weekends or holidays). It was not until I informed the school of this that they finally got the EP in who tells me that the school do not think his behaviour is any different than that of any other 7 year old(even though I have had to collect during the day due to this)..he is suddenly bang on were he should be in regards to the curriculum(even though I have been called in 5 times to "tell him" he needs to do his writing/reading(he has apparently caught up in 2 months).

Anyways thanks again x