You have gotten good advice, but I do want to be honest with you and tell you that we got some negative reactions when we switched our DD to a gifted magnet (which did in fact have the word "gifted" in its name). I handled it just as was suggested here and still, it didn't go over well. I'm still friends with all of these people (these are close friends) and the feelings seem to have "blown over" for the most part, but it will be a while before I entirely forget some of the comments that were made. I don't think the comments were made out of jealousy, btw.