Oh, polarbear, you made me cry. Not only because it helps to know someone else understands but because I shared a crappy night with my kiddo as well.
Yes, his actual diagnosis is motor-neuro developmental coordination disorder. The school calls it dysgraphia because no one knows what to do with DCD. I've gotten in that habit as well. I've been accused of being in denial and refusing to get proper treatment (drugs) for my son, but, like you, I've had to have it proven that he doesn't have ADHD.
Maybe it is just end-of-the-year craziness. I'm just so frustrated with the anger/resentment I'm picking up in the tones of the emails, as if they think by this time of year he should be "fixed".
