What I find the most upsetting is how the whole school experience seems to such a detriment to her psyche and health and how much time and energy that we have to pour into her to boost her back up. If she were simply pooped out from working hard on an enriching educational experience, I could accept it a bit more. But when she is at risk of having to abandon enriching and educational acitivities at home and in the great after-school groups we are finding for her, in exchange for getting no education ... sorry that's just not a healthy thing.