Welcome, Michelle, and sympathy! What to do next depends quite a bit on where you are - on the left there's a link "How gifted-friendly is your state?" which you might like to look at. Some states give you rights, in others you have to beg... but it sounds as though you have at least some serious advocacy in front of you, and you may need to be thinking about whether there are other school options.

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