"Try to stay flexible, plans for these amazing little people can change in an instant. Don't think more than a year aead, it'll just make you crazy and always listen to your "mommy gut" when trying to decide what comes next."

Wow - that is great advice! I'm e-mailing that to my husband (and copying myself so I can refer to it)! Thank you for that perspective. I think I have been making myself crazy trying to think too far in advance. I'm such a planner, but this is one area where I think I'll need to let go of that a bit more.