When I first realized that my DS was of a "different stripe" I was relentless in my pursuit of answers and information. I lived on Hoagies, on here, on the Davidson site. I get it, I understand her need for answers.

What I don't understand is why she is not taking the info i've given her and move on, find the answers she needs. In some ways I feel like i'm her bragging post. She wants me to validate her son in some way. I can't do that, i'm no expert and even in YS circles everybody is different. Some PG'lets stick out like a sore thumb (mine) and some don't. I can't look her in the eye and tell her that her son is YS material and I think that is exactly what she is looking for.

I do find it odd that she is planning to move her family to Reno when the child is 5 and hasn't been tested. Next time she waylays me I will talk to her again about testing and she if she hears me this time.


Shari
Mom to DS 10, DS 11, DS 13
Ability doesn't make us, Choices do!