I understand the comments about finding a church that meets your faith and views, but as others understood about the cultural thing, I still have my FC dress that my mother designed and had made and DD is going to wear it. Since my mother passed when I was 16, this is a big deal for me, for tradition and memory of my mother, not because of Catholic doctrine. But she does have to pass the quizzes.

You would think they need people...

Thanks for all the comments. And I think we did it without offending anyone JonLaw.

Ren