here, DD8, goes to public school that is paid for with property taxes. I don't pay extra and I STILL feel I have the right to hold them accountable for what we were promised.
That school works for YOU! Personalized learning plan sounds like EACH child should be interviewed, strengths/weaknesses asessed and their needs taken into consideration. Maybe you do need to have a meeting to discuss your children and see what is being done. They SHOULD explain it to you, I think you are well within your rights.
FWIW-DD8 is going to start independent study (homeschool with a school campus for one classroom day and other activities) but I would NOT consider it AT ALL for DD4.5 right now. She too is excited about school and having a great time, so she stays, lol!