The one thing about the homework thing- the having to do it perfectly can often turn a light homework assignment into a long ordeal. Hopefully any program that is working with gifties addresses this issue and works closely with the parents to monitor this. I think the extra curricular activities can help to moderator this tendency. I would want to know what she was not in 99% to help understand where she stands. Can you spend some time in the classroom of the magnet program. Can your daughter visit? Sometimes teachers are more important than programs. What school does the magnet feed into for middle school? Some thoughts.. good luck.