think from your son's perspective. I am sure that he would rather be with other gifted kids than with people who don't get it and would quite possibly not know what to do for him or wouldn't do anything for him at all kwim?
I am assuming you have made financial provision for whoever becomes his guardian, and I am sure that your brother would feel honoured to be able to do this for you.
having said that - let's hope it's never necessary
It's why we have only now started finalising our kid's guardians. Firstly we have three kids and secondly we needed to ensure its someone who will do their darndest to keep them going along their own paths with what they each need.
