@DeeDee thanks for the input from "the other side."  I know that, if everyone stays in the program, these kids will be together for at least 6 years, if not longer.  With my older children, I've seen how little things from first grade can fester and come back in later years.   I like the idea of trying to nip this in the bud and foster understanding.  I'm thinking through my email to the teacher now.  
@La Texican I have no idea what, if anything, they are doing for this kid.  Wouldn't it be lovely if this could be fixed with a stress ball?  I don't feel comfortable making these kinds of suggestions without knowing the parents or the kid.  My gut says that this may be more complicated.