Thanks Sydness, embarrassingly she's as, or more, frightened of the shower. She has a lot more fears than my first two kids, which I think is in part that she forms beliefs very quickly about things. We honestly do no make a big fuss over poo being yucky, but her big sisters making a fuss over being in the bath that she poo-ed in two days running left quite the impression. As have one or two bad head wetting experiences. Sadly she doesn't get over her anxieties nearly as fast as she forms them, slowly slowly on that front.