Thanks for such a thorough reply sydness! Sadly my DDs diet is so restricted there is very little we can give in the way of candy (she can have white marshmallows but nonmore than 2 per day and a tiny amount of dairy free chocolate). And it's winter and freezing, so no naked time either... Really I know I sound obstructive but I feel so over a barrel.

I have tried putting the potty in the toilet but she seems happier when it's in the bathroom. We'll just keep trying to normalize it.