DD13 had a whole slew of them. DD 2.9 has got them. She started with a black cat about a year ago. Over the past few months a girl and boy have been showing up. But they are official at this point. I don't really mind them except when in public and complex logistics and conversations that concern them occur. Just looking for what people have done... specially in public..what would you do differently etc. With Dd13 when she was little I never knew who was going to show for dinner and really it became a bit over the top when the table could not fit all the "family" I am a bit better at saying no but sometimes the argument is more than just allowing everyone their place at the table.... Anyways thoughts?