Chill. Breathe. Aww, sister, the babys gotta grow and make their own struggles too. I'm not telling you this so you don't help him, I'm telling u this because I know the Mamma feels every little distress of the baby.
I let the boy talk to other people without intercessing for him. I figured it was a self-correcting feedback for other people to understand or misinterpret what he's saying and he could work it out. Wait. More L8R...

Youth lives by personality, age lives by calculation. -- Aristotle on a calendar