Alb,
how's your summer going? What are your plans for school for your son for next year?
I'm sorry to hear that it's so scary. One of my favorite people is a man in his 30's who sounds like this. Lucky for him, he's got a great wife who "works" full time keeping him organized, and a fat paycheck from a wall street job. So they're pretty happy.
have you looked into Simon's Rock College in Massachucets as a way for him to graduate early and keep the supports there?
I'd reccomend reading Mislabled Child - I'd want to make sure the visual system is operating at 100%
Love -
Trinity