Along a similar vien
WWW.flylady.org helps cheer one along as one organizes.
Alb - how scared are you? Are you able to come at this as a friendly coach or does it send you into a panic? Do you see shades of yourself or DH?
Seems like all the things you're doing are right on target.
Do you have any friends with kids with disabilities who have to explisitly teach and drill life skills? They may have some great tips you can modify.
Can you write down you biggest fears and pick just one goal to focus on for the next 6 months?
((hugs))
Trinity
