I wish I knew what to tell you. My son has been experiencing something similiar I guess....

He is 8 but he had this girl he loved when he was 4 in PA. We are now in Virginia and the little girl isn't. Last year, one of the girls in his new school kissed him on the cheek and he came home in tears. He said that he already had a girlfriend. LOL.

I am not ready for him to have an interest in girls yet but he does and I guess I have to deal with that.

Just the same, I always tell him that he should tell the girls that his mom said he isn't allowed to have a girlfriend yet.