Grinity is right that an evaluation by school personnel should be supplemented by a private evaluation. Preferably by a developmental pediatrician or psychologist with LOTS of experience with the whole autism spectrum, including the gifted end.
What the school does for your child should be supplemented at home by teaching strategies you can learn to use to curb the impulsiveness and teach good social behavior. It's great that they are offering the IEP; but school is only a small piece of teaching a child on the spectrum.
DeeDee
