Hi Mamabird: I just want to add my support. I am the mother to a 4.5 year old 2e little girl. As she approaches school age, we very much want her giftedness to be as recognized as her ASD (she has PDD-NOS on the autism spectrum). Fortunately, we think we've found an elementary school that will cater to both "parts" of her developmental profile, but it sure took some sleuthing! We are lucky to have the support of a fantastic early intervention center, where DD has been receiving her behavioral and social group therapy, that is staffed with some exceptional psychologists who understand 2e kids.
I echo DeeDee's suggestion re having your son thoroughly assessed by a professional with experience in both ASD and giftedness. My vote would be with a good psychologist. May I ask where you are located?
All the best in getting whatever support and understanding that your son needs (and deserves!) to reach his full potential.
Kristen
