Azuil - What fun!!! Sounds like you are a terrific mom with a lovely daughter and son - Yippee!
Stubborn and willful do tend to run in families - but here is hoping that your experience will help you help your DD. Get her tested.
BTW - I am not suggesting that you should be pushing your DD to read Harry Potter! I'm celebrating - she is reading early but she is enjoying age appropriate reading - which is wonderful! The kids who can't be stopped from reading books like Harry Potter have a very hard time of it in Kindy - so be pleased. I think you hit the nail on the head about the difficulty of having too much adult information in her head and age appropriate emotional maturity to handle such things. A lovely example of 'asynchronous development.'
Love and More Love,
Grinity
