Katelyn'sMom, I felt the same way as what you posted. When I first read the post it brough back immediate bad memories of when I first realized that my child was a little different. I tried sharing with other moms I knew in hopes of finding someone to connect with and see if I could find others who went through the same daily ins and outs that my DH and I were going through..I felt like we were on an iceburg floating around in this huge sea all alone. When I would finally jump in and share when other moms were talking/sharing about their kids, I would get the "look" and I quickly learned not to talk about my child in front of other moms anymore.
But if she really is a pushy mom, then it could be really annoying.