Great topic :-) DS7 didn't have issues with going in the toilet, his issue was with wiping....he was worried he wouldn't get it all cleaned up and would refuse to even try....nothing like wiping a 6 year olds bum bum and we were afraid of other kids making fun of him...so we got the flushable wet wipes that sit by the side of the toilet...he wipes himself until he thinks he is done and then asks one of us to come do a final wipe check...in the last month or so he has gotten a million times better and I think we will be able to phase out the check routine soon! LOVE the idea of the mirror!!!