I have to keep this very short (computer issues), but wanted to say that my parents did nothing and I didn't get into harvard (and if I hadn't been underachieving, I probably could have) (twice, lol). I didn't learn how to think until I was practicing law. Sure, I still went to an excellent law school, but I wasted a lot of years, a lot of time in which I might have learned something, had my parents done somemthing when I was in elementary school. A couple of my kids are already on paths to underachievement, and I'm trying to head it off at the pass. I hope to come back and read the rest of this when my DSL service is back up....