hkc75, Thanks for the ideas on reaching out to other 2E parents at the school and the OT idea.
Grinity and Austin, Thanks again for all the support.
I just had this parent-teacher meeting this week. We talked about the general goals as of academic and social. I was glad that it was pointed out to me that he was young amongst his peers, as we were discussing his handwriting still being big and not lined up. Yes, we did start the chart this week and I was told of "improvement". DS8 has been pretty excited to tell me daily how his chart "scores" at school. I am also hoping the teachers will also "take clue" from the chart and approach/view him a little big differently. I am taking any size positive steps that I can get. And I'll be sure to report back on our progress.