DD8 I'm never sure. Several years ago I got point blank questioned was I santa because a kid at school had noticed that santa's handwriting matched his mom's. Taken aback I don't know how well I asked well what do you think? She never lets on. I think I took the if you don't believe no presents approach. She's very fanciful and imaginative so even though she knows things aren't real I think she likes to believe. I also think the parents have to be smart about it if you want the illusion. ie, I disguised my writing and eventually made printed labels.

Of course last month the "tooth fairy" fell asleep, so DD8 just comes up with the tooth fairy must have sundays off. I can't imagine someone at school hasn't blown it.

DD4 is more straightforward and will probably just come out and tell us.....