Ive noticed a slight improvement with the perfectionism that she has. In first grade dd would be so upset and frustrated if she missed one problem on a test. She didn't like it if anyone scored higher than her either. Her teacher and I tried to stress to her that not knowing an answer or getting an answer wrong is ok, its how we learn. It took some time but she started to relax a bit and not be so hard on herself.
Now she's in 2nd grade and Im noticing that while she's still very focused on getting 100% on her work she is not nearly as hard on herself when she doesn't.
