Good Luck Jenafur!
Seems like now is the time to put on your "Ding dong look" proof shield and venture out into your local school district. Start with just you, and you can bring your son in later. Keep asking for information, help, and stress that you have your son's emotional growth at heart. Check out the private schools as well. Talk to everyone who might know anything about this. When you get the "Ding dong look" smile patiently and look for a way to find the next person to talk to. Practice in front of the mirror a kind, understanding and slightly smug "I used to be ignorant also" look. ((Did I just say that?))
Lots of folks need to talk for a while before any new ideas get into their heads, so try to expect this. If you wait long enough, you can usually find something to agree with, and agree heartily. Then you can introduce your point, starting from where they are.
Activate Shields and go forward!
Trinity
