So it is all about power! DS3 *can* use the potty. He knows perfectly well when he needs to go and can, even, do it all by himself. (He doesn't even need a step stool!) He proved it this weekend. Not one accident while visiting his grandparents for a full day. Now, at home, is a whole other story. I asked him, today, why didn't he use the potty. He looked me in the eye, shrugged, said "What for?" and laughed. shocked

Can you believe it? "What for?" laugh cry