Originally Posted by mizzoumommy
"Well, I already know how to use the potty. I don't need a silly sticker chart for that. I just don't *want* to use it." I asked him, "Why?" He let me know that it took too much time. If he went in his pants he didn't have to stop what he was doing and could get changed when he was ready (e.g. done with whatever he was doing) or uncomfortable.

*sigh*

I think that if he can give you this nice explanation, he's big enough for you to tell him "OK, then you have to change yourself from now on." (That's what I would do!)