Hi Mom2,
Sounds like you have wonderful, bright children that certainly keep you busy. I have 2 children and your son sounds similar to my DD10. We had similar boredom issues at school since 2nd grade and last year 4th grade experience forced us to make some radical changes in her education. Last year DD was not putting much effort to school, had stomach aches and asked to be homeschooled. She was bullied and tried to fit in by not answering questions. Her teacher didn't think she was gifted because of this behavior and pulled her out of gifted math (a pull out program once per week).
We had DD tested (IQ) and she also took the Explore test through a talent search program. With the information in hand, we began looking for the right schooling option and moved to a gifted friendly school district. Our school did not believe in grade skips and the pull out wasn't enough challenge. I'm sure if I had pushed the issue, we might have gotten some accommodation, but frankly I didn't want to battle year after year like other parents had.
Fast forward to this year. DD is in fifth grade, but is subject accelerated in math and LA (+2). She is with other accelerated kids and an enthusiastic straight A student. Next year she will skip another grade of math along with a couple of other kids and she is so happy. I would have never thought one child can change so drastically by acceleration and being around other gifted kids.
I wanted to tell you our experience to encourage you that a child can turn around and be excited about learning. I would suggest having an IQ test and achievement testing done to know your child's level of giftedness. That way you know how drastic your intervention may have to be. The Explore test is inexpensive and your school may be able to do the IQ test. Hope this helps!
Jen
