welcome! I am always so impressed with parents of multiples + singles. You certainly have a lot going on.
There are so many wise and talented posters on this board - ask specific questions and you will get timely and insightful responses.
Where are you located? What kind of school system are you in? Do you have many choices for your kiddos?
I can relate to the story of your oldest in that he sounds much like our oldest Ds9. We didn't have the joy/distraction of three others, just one, and so we pulled him out of public school in 2nd grade. We are currently homeschooling/alternative public schooling him but are moving to a larger metro area and hope for more options.
Good luck! and I'm glad you found your way to this forum.
