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At the same time he wants me beside him all the time, just in case he needs me and won't wait. I don't think this is good for him and discourage it.


DS4.5 is like this and i sympathise entirely.

Have you tried the NAGC for tester recommendations? Or http://www.bps.org.uk/e-services/find-a-psychologist/directory.cfm . I believe that Joan Freeman uses the SBV, she is in London you can email her though http://www.joanfreeman.com/mainpages/consultancyreq.htm, she responded to me within an hour. I'm not sure that your GP will pay her prices though (pm me and i can tell you smile )