I think it's normal for 9 year old boy social interactions to look really really superficial to their moms.
But do say more about exactly what this 'social cue bubble' is, ok?
I think the idea of teaching him stuff about social cues is a good one, independent of if he does or doesn't have a particular diagnosis.
Also, call the MAP test folks and ask them for their most detailed test results report, explaining that you are homeschooling him and want to use the MAP to give you an idea for curriculum planning.
Sounds like an assesment is in order to evaluate the social skill issue and help with planning his education. I would strongly suggest also signing up for the Explore test through the talent search and seeing if you can get an idea of LOG.
I figure that a strong Math student could be doing Algebra I in 7th or 8th grade. Have you tried him on Algebra? In the end, if he is healtily learning at the rate of a highly gifted kid, then he is a highly gifted kid, no matter what the test scores say.
Best Wishes,
Grinity
