Thank you for all the input and sharing your thoughts. I'm very thankful I found this board. If I ever have problematic situation arise, I will definitely post for opinions. I think after reading the posts here on this thread, I don't feel so alone. I think we can all learn from each other and that's a great source of combined knowledge
After reading and reading and more reading, one thing I will never do again, is tell my kids a act their age, no matter how mad I am at them. I am so guilty of that.
Kriston, to answer your question, it's a little bit of both.
I really dislike the thought of my children being labeled. The reason for that is, once you label someone then it becomes a stereotype. I don't like anyone to stereotyping my kids. Maybe I need to readjust my way of thinking.
